In the Butter Churner, the receiving partner lies on their back, lifts their legs straight up toward the ceiling (often over their head), while the penetrating partner kneels and thrusts downward — almost like “churning butter” with their partner’s hips as the barrel.
Visual summary:
- Receiver: flat on back → hips tilted upward → legs vertical (or folded toward shoulders)
- Giver: kneeling → thrusts directly downward
- Angle: extremely open, extremely deep
🧠 How People Usually Understand It
Users tend to think:
It’s only for porn stars — Not true. It looks extreme, but with pillows, proper warm-up, and angle adjustments, many couples can do it comfortably.
It’s only about deep penetration — Actually, it also gives:
- intense clitoral pressure
- prostate/perineum stimulation (for anal versions)
- a feeling of surrender / power-play dynamic
It always requires extreme flexibility — Also not true.
Bent legs, knees spread, or using furniture can make it much easier.
❤️ Who Typically Loves This Butter Churner Position Sex?
People who enjoy:
- Maximum penetration depth
- Power-dynamic vibes (submission, domination, restraint feelings)
- Porn-like visuals
- Receiving intense G-spot / A-spot / P-spot stimulation
- Fast or rhythmic thrusting styles
- Feeling “held,” “pinned,” or “folded”
Especially popular among:
- Couples exploring kink or power play
- People who enjoy folded positions like piledriver, pretzel, lotus
- Users who like strong angles and strong sensations
⚠️ Common Misconceptions
❌ “It must be painful.”
Not inherently — pain usually comes from skipping warm-up, bad angles, or poor support.
❌ “Only gymnasts can do it.”
You can use:
- pillows under hips
- wall support
- legs bent instead of straight
- partner holding thighs
❌ “It’s only vaginal.”
There’s also a Butter Churner Anal variation — it gives extremely controlled depth and angle, which many find pleasurable when done slowly and safely.
🔥 How to Make the Butter Churner Easier, Deeper & Better
⭐ 1. Add hip support
Pillows, a wedge, or even folded blankets lift the pelvis > reduces strain > improves angle.
⭐ 2. Adjust leg style
Choose comfort:
- legs straight
- knees bent
- V-shape
- one leg lifted at a time
⭐ 3. Control speed
This position magnifies sensations.
Start slow → build rhythm → adjust depth.
⭐ 4. Use hands
The giver can:
- hold thighs
- push hips upward
- use one hand for clitoral stimulation
⭐ 5. Great for sex toys
Butter Churner works extremely well with:
- cock sleeves
- vibrators
- prostate toys
- vibrating bullet on clitoris or perineum

🍆 Why the Cock Sleeve Makes the Butter Churner 10× Better
Because the Butter Churner is about angle + depth, this is one of the BEST positions to use a cock sleeve (penis extender/thickener).

💪 Cock sleeves help by:
- Adding length for deeper G-spot/A-spot contact
- Adding girth for fuller sensations
- Creating more friction during vertical thrusts
- Improving firmness for men with mild ED or semi-erection
- Giving a consistent, controlled thrusting feel
For ED or not fully hard erections:
The downward thrust of the Butter Churner can be difficult unless the penis is very firm.
A sleeve:
- stabilizes the shaft
- gives structural rigidity
- allows the user to perform the position comfortably
- creates a strong visual that enhances arousal
Perfect synergy: Butter Churner + cock sleeve = deeper, fuller, stronger penetration with less physical effort.
If you want, I can recommend specific models from Domlust.
🛡️ Safety Tips
- Avoid locking knees — keep them soft and comfortable
- Add cushioning under neck and shoulders
- Slow down if hips feel compressed
- Communicate often — this is an intense posture
- Anal version: use LOTS of lubrication and start extremely slow
🌶️ Related Positions People Love
- Jackhammer Sex Position Guide – fast, intense thrusting →
- Apex Sex Position – high-angle penetration for plus-size and deep-spot seekers →
- Captain Position Sex Guide – dominant kneeling control →
- Cowgirl Sex Position – visually stimulating + great for grinding →
- Wheelbarrow Position – dynamic, energetic angle →
- Piledriver – the extreme cousin of the butter churner




