Squirting—also known as female ejaculation—is a topic that often sparks curiosity and confusion. Is it real? Is it pee? Can you make it happen? The answer is yes, and yes—you can absolutely learn how to do it. But first, let’s clear up some myths and set the stage for a positive, informed experience.
What Is Squirting, Really?
Squirting is the release of a significant amount of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm. While the exact composition is still debated, research suggests that it may be a combination of fluids from the bladder and secretions from the Skene’s glands (often referred to as the female prostate) National Association For Continence.
It's important to note that squirting is not the same as urination. The fluid released during squirting is typically clear and odorless, whereas urine is yellow and has a distinct smell. However, because the urethra serves both functions, some overlap can occur, and that's perfectly normal.
Getting in the Right Headspace
Before attempting to squirt, it's crucial to be in the right mindset:
- Relaxation is Key: Anxiety can hinder arousal and physical response. Create a comfortable environment where you feel safe and at ease.
- Self-Exploration: Spend time getting to know your body. Understanding what feels good can enhance your ability to achieve squirting.
- Communication: If you're with a partner, open communication about desires and boundaries is essential.
Step-by-Step Guide to Squirt
- Preparation: Empty your bladder before starting to avoid discomfort. Having towels or waterproof sheets can help with cleanup.
- Lubrication: Use a generous amount of water-based lubricant to reduce friction and enhance sensation.
- Stimulation:
- G-Spot Exploration: Insert one or two fingers into the vagina and curl them upward, toward the belly button, aiming to stimulate the anterior (front) wall.
- Pressure and Rhythm: Apply consistent pressure and rhythmic motion. Some find that a "come here" motion works best.
- Combine with Clitoral Stimulation: Many individuals find that combining G-spot stimulation with clitoral stimulation increases the likelihood of squirting.
- Letting Go: As you approach orgasm, you may feel a sensation similar to the need to urinate. This is normal. Allowing yourself to relax and release can lead to squirting.
💡 Tips and Tricks
- Positioning: Positions that allow for deep penetration and G-spot access, such as doggy style or lying on your back with hips elevated, can be effective.
- Use of Toys: G-spot vibrators or curved dildos designed for internal stimulation can enhance the experience.
- Hydration: Staying well-hydrated ensures that your body has the necessary fluids for squirting.
- Practice: Like any skill, practice can improve your ability to squirt. Regular exploration can help you understand your body's responses.
Enhance Your Squirting Experience with Domlust Sexual Toys
For those looking to take their squirting journey to the next level, certain Domlust products can enhance pleasure and make exploration more exciting:
👉 Wand Vibrators →
Powerful, deep vibrations can help relax the pelvic muscles and intensify clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Using a wand alongside manual G-spot exploration often helps many users reach their first squirt or enhance repeat experiences.
For those exploring partner play or anal stimulation, prostate massagers provide targeted internal pressure that can mimic the fullness and pulsation sensations associated with squirting. This can create a more immersive, body-wide orgasmic experience.
Amplify Squirting with E-Stim Stimulation
For those looking to explore advanced sensations, electro-stimulation (E-Stim) can add an entirely new dimension to your squirting experience. When used safely with Domlust-approved E-Stim devices:
- Enhanced Pelvic Muscle Activation – Gentle electrical pulses stimulate the pubococcygeus (PC) and surrounding pelvic muscles, increasing tone and control. Stronger pelvic muscles can lead to more intense, body-wide squirting orgasms.
- Heightened Sensory Pleasure – E-Stim creates unique, tingling sensations that can amplify G-spot responsiveness and orgasm intensity. Many users report that the combination of manual or toy-assisted G-spot stimulation with E-Stim feels markedly different—deeper, more pulsing, and immersive.
- Dom/sub Play Enhancement – The controlled intensity of E-Stim fits perfectly into Dom/sub dynamics. A partner can regulate stimulation, adding anticipation, power exchange, and erotic tension that often intensifies squirting.
Picture this: your PC muscles lightly pulsing under E-Stim pads while a wand vibrator teases your G-spot. The dual sensations—internal electrical pulses and mechanical stimulation—can dramatically enhance the orgasmic release, making squirting feel fuller, longer-lasting, and more controllable.
Safety Note: Always start at low intensities, use body-safe electrodes, and follow manufacturer instructions to ensure a safe, pleasurable experience.
👉 Lubricants & Sensation Enhancers →
Using high-quality, skin-safe lubricants reduces friction, allowing for longer, smoother sessions, which is crucial for comfort and heightened sensitivity during squirting practice.
Imagine a relaxed evening: dim lights, a wand vibrator in hand, G-spot stimulation combined with a partner using a Domlust fantasy sleeve. The combination of internal pressure, external vibration, and rhythmic exploration can turn squirting from a rare curiosity into a reliably pleasurable, body-affirming experience.
🧠 Understanding the Experience
Squirting is a deeply personal experience. Not everyone will achieve it, and that's okay. The goal should be pleasure and self-discovery, not pressure to perform. Remember, every body is different, and what works for one person may not work for another.
❓ Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is squirting the same as urination?
No, while both involve the urethra, squirting is a distinct phenomenon. The fluid released during squirting is typically clear and odorless, unlike urine, which is yellow and has a distinct smell.
Q: Can I learn to squirt?
Yes, with practice and understanding of your body, many individuals can learn to squirt. It's important to approach this with patience and without pressure.
Q: Why don't I squirt?
Not everyone is capable of squirting, and that's perfectly normal. The ability to squirt varies from person to person and isn't a measure of sexual satisfaction or health.
Q: How can I make cleanup easier?
Using towels, waterproof sheets, or even adult incontinence pads can make cleanup easier and less stressful.
