Is Squirting Just Pee? We Break It Down
Squirting is a deeply personal, often misunderstood phenomenon—surrounded by mystery, curiosity, and a whole lot of misinformation. Whether you've felt a sudden gush mid-orgasm or wondered if that intense pressure meant you were about to pee, you're not alone. Squirting isn't just something from porn; it's real, it's powerful, and it's more common than you think.
Squirt vs. Female Ejaculation: What’s the Difference?
Let’s set the record straight.
- Squirting is the release of a clear, often copious, watery fluid through the urethra. It usually happens during high arousal or orgasm, though not always.
- Female ejaculation is the release of a smaller amount of milky-white fluid, originating from the Skene’s glands (aka the "female prostate").
They’re not the same thing—though they can occur together. And no, squirting is not just peeing. While the fluid can come from the bladder and may contain traces of urine, it’s distinct from regular urination both in intent and experience.
Is Squirt Just Pee? What Does Squirting Feel Like?
The most common description? Like the delicious edge of needing to pee—but instead of holding it in, you let go. Some describe it as an intense, almost cathartic release that floods the body with warmth and shudders of pleasure. Others don’t feel much during the moment itself, but discover soaked sheets and a deep post-orgasmic satisfaction afterward.
Pleasure is personal. For some, squirting is a wild, primal release. For others, it’s a quiet trickle. Either way, it’s real—and it can be deeply empowering.
How Common Is It?
Squirting is more common than you might expect. Research suggests around 40% of people with vulvas have squirted at least once, though not everyone does so consistently or even notices when it happens. Female ejaculation may be even more widespread, with studies estimating between 10%–54% of women experience it during orgasm.
It’s also worth noting that some people only start squirting later in life, often as they grow more attuned to their bodies, or after major life events like childbirth or major shifts in sexual openness.
How to Explore Squirting—Alone or Together
Curious? Excited? Good. Here’s how to start your squirting journey—with or without a partner.
Start with Self-Exploration
Masturbation gives you the freedom to listen to your body without pressure. Try inserting two fingers or a curved G-spot toy that applies steady, firm pressure toward the belly button—right where the G-spot hides. You’ll feel something building: warmth, fullness, pressure. Don’t clench—relax your pelvic floor. Let go. Let it happen.
Want a shortcut? A clitoral vibrator like the ones from Domlust adds just the right hum to tip you over. Use it on low and build up as the pressure grows.
Add Clitoral Stimulation
For many, the magic happens when clitoral and internal pleasure meet. Trace your clit in small, steady circles while working inside. You can try a hands-free suction toy or a vibe you can press right where it counts. Domlust’s collection of sleek, quiet toys lets you stay in the moment—without distraction.
Try Penetration-Heavy Positions
When playing with a partner, go deep—literally. Positions like doggy style, missionary with your legs lifted, or cowgirl with a slow forward grind create direct contact with the G-spot. Add a penis sleeve to make their length thicker, fuller, more textured. It’s not just about size—it’s about sensation. Domlust cock sleeve offer girth, flexibility, and texture that your body will feel with every stroke.
Don't be afraid to bring toys into the mix. Vibrators against the clit while being penetrated? Pure bliss. Use your hands, mouths, bodies—this is your canvas. Paint outside the lines.
Take Your Time—Like, Really Take Your Time
Squirting doesn’t happen on a timer. Some need 20 minutes, others an hour. In one study, it took up to 60 minutes of consistent stimulation. The journey is the pleasure. Slow down. Linger. Watch her tremble. Feel your own tension rising.
Let the pressure build until it has nowhere else to go.
Engage the Whole Body
Your genitals are just one part of the symphony. Run your fingers over their neck. Play with nipples, thighs, the soft part behind the knees. Kiss slowly. Whisper. Suck fingers. Use a vibrating toy on her chest while grinding against her G-spot. Let her body melt into yours.
Desire doesn’t live in one place—it spreads like fire when you feed it.
Want to squirt? The secret isn’t just technique—it’s trust, surrender, and yes… the right tools.
Explore Domlust sex store of curved toys, vibrating clitoral stimulators, and textured cock sleeves to unlock deeper pleasure—for you, your partner, or both.
How to Support Your Partner (Without Pressure)
Want to help your partner squirt? Here’s your guide:
- Be gentle and curious, not goal-driven. Don’t make squirting the goal. Make pleasure the goal.
- Check in, not out. Ask what they enjoy. Read their breath, their moans, their body. Adjust pace, angle, and intensity. You’re exploring together.
- Foreplay isn’t optional—it’s the ignition. Think sensual massages, teasing, dirty talk, oral. Let arousal simmer until it begs to boil.
- Respect boundaries. And honor the magic of "maybe." They may squirt. They may not. That’s okay. Celebrate whatever happens.
Squirting Is for Everyone—Yes, Everyone
Squirting isn't limited to cisgender women. Trans men, non-binary people, and others with vulvas can squirt too. Pleasure doesn’t discriminate. Neither should we.
Exploring squirting—solo or with partners—can be an act of discovery, empowerment, and even healing. It’s about understanding your body, releasing shame, and welcoming your desires, however they look.
Everyone deserves pleasure on their own terms—whatever your gender, identity, or anatomy.
Common Myths—Debunked
- “Everyone can squirt.” Not true. Everyone is different. And that’s beautiful.
- “Squirting is fake—it’s just pee.” Also false. The fluid may contain traces of urine, but it’s a unique release linked to intense pleasure and stimulation.
- “You have to squirt to have good sex.” No. Squirting is one possible expression of pleasure. It’s not better—just different.
Anal and Squirt: More Than a Myth, Less Than a Mystery
Squirting is messy, mysterious, and utterly real. It’s not something to force, but something to invite—a possibility that might unfold when you create space for deep arousal, trust, exploration, and surrender.
So explore your body. Ask your partner what feels good. Use your fingers, your toys, your mouths, your voice. Let go of what should happen—and focus on what feels right.
Because in the end, pleasure isn’t about performance—it’s about presence.
